"Oh, it's kind of like... like, bees? Or ants or something? You're born as one thing and that's how it is?" It's the first thing that comes to mind. A drone can't be a queen, and a soldier can't be a worker. They all have a specific purpose and a specific job. Maybe fae are like that.

Ghoul has always been one to defy the rules, though, so of course the next question out of his mouth is, "Did you ever watch one try to change?"