"That's the attitude you should approach this with! Food is always a good offer for any growing person," she suggests, laughing a bit and covering her mouth with a hand to try and keep quiet so no one would over hear her.

Not like anyone will hear her here but old habits are difficult to get rid of. "Just think of it as spending time with him like how you spend time with anyone else -- Getting to know him better, wanting to know him better. There's nothing wrong with that.

"I'm sure he won't be suspicious long as you act like yourself, not yourself as a concerned party." That is what would give him away soon as possible around a suspicious growing teenager.